More than an Athlete

July 24, 2019
July 24, 2019 Admin

More than an Athlete

What is the only sure thing in elite sport?

Winning is not.

Making money is not.

Being selected for the team is not.

The only thing that every athlete can count on is this: it will end.

Every athlete will retire. The when, where and how may differ, but the dream will end, and they will wake up to the reality of everyday, normal life. A life that can be disorientating and confusing, as the statistics across sporting codes show:

  • About 40% suffer from depression, anxiety and stress once they retire and try to adjust to ordinary life.
  • Up to 60% experience an emotional let-down after retirement.
  • Close to 50% feel that they lose their identity when they stop competing.

Of the challenges athletes face as they try to negotiate life after sport, loss of identity is one of the most difficult. Sport is not just the game I play. Sport is who I am, what I am, why I am. Its every second on the clock, every moment I live -says one of the latest slogans from adidas. It’s meant to motivate and inspire, pushing you to be the best you can be. You are an athlete, it is who you are – your reason for being.

So, what happens when you are no longer an athlete?

Who are you then?

Many athletes draw much of their self-worth from their identity as an athlete. It is hard not to do this when everyone knows you as ‘the athlete’ and you put so much time and effort into the performance of this one identity (often to the detriment of others). But it creates difficulties when that identity is essentially taken away through retirement.

Taryn Ternent, a former South African swimmer and national record holder, highlights this problem, saying:

I really struggled with figuring out who I was when I retired, because I had confused who I am with what I did. I kept thinking that without swimming, I was not worth anything of true value, and that I had nothing to give or offer my family, friends, or even society in general. I still struggled with this concept some years after my very last training session and last competitive race. Could I be someone other than THE SWIMMER, could I have different dreams and aspirations, and could I find success and happiness?

Dame Kelly Holmes, double gold medallist in Athens 2004, was no different:

You get to the point where you are lost – you lose your identity; you don’t really know who you are anymore and what you are doing.5

Penny Heyns, 14 x world record holder and first women ever to win the 100m and 200m Breaststroke at an Olympic Games, speaks of the difficult of not only getting others to see you as something other than ‘the swimmer’, but also of thinking of yourself as more than just an athlete:

Penny needed to figure out who she was apart from swimming, and although she knew that she was more than just a swimmer, she had to somehow prove this to herself and others. She didn’t want to be involved with swimming at all until a few years ago, because she wanted to separate herself, Penny the person, from Penny Heyns the brand, something that proved to be quite difficult, both professionally and privately. Penny says that only recently has she been able to walk into a business meeting and feel like Penny the business woman, rather than Penny the swimmer.

 We have to encourage athletes to know themselves as people first, not just athletes, and learn that self-worth cannot be dependant on just one part of who they are. While there can be no balance in terms of time while competing (training is training), exploring other parts of themselves and interests apart from sport, is critical in adjusting to normal life one day.


NOTE: All quotes and statistics are from Waking from The Dream: stories of transition out of sport